Since I used to be a sports fanatic, I took the term CBA (collective bargaining agreement) from the MLB to refer to the give and take I expected in my marriage with Kim.
This CBA was really a "you do this for me and I will do this for you"
In reality, we manipulated each other, possibly me more than her
I would do this so I felt cared for. I would do this so I felt secure. I would do this for so many other reasons.
But in all my positioning, it was ultimately all about me, and I sinned against her.
Friends, please don't do what I did. Make it about her.
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